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Mom In The Messy Middle


What You Actually Need to Start Homeschooling (It’s Way Less Than You Think)
When I first started homeschooling, I thought I needed *everything*. A homeschool room. Fancy storage bins. Every curriculum I saw on Pinterest. A laminator. A printer. Color-coded lesson plans stretching out into infinity. The list felt endless. And honestly? A little overwhelming. But here's what I've learned since then: you need far less than you think. If you're staring down a homeschool supply list right now feeling like you're already behind before you've even started —
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Homeschool Doesn’t Have to Look Like School (And That’s the Best Part)
One of the biggest misconceptions about homeschooling is that we have to recreate traditional school in our homes. Rows of desks, Eight-hour school days,Stacks of worksheets, Strict schedules…. But here’s the beautiful truth: homeschooling doesn’t have to look like school at home. In fact, one of the greatest gifts of homeschooling is the freedom to build a learning environment that actually fits your child — and your family. If you’ve ever worried you’re not doing enough bec
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How to Start Homeschooling Without Feeling Overwhelmed (A Beginner Mom’s Guide)
If you’ve been thinking about homeschooling but feel completely overwhelmed, you’re not alone. Maybe you’ve spent hours scrolling Pinterest, comparing curriculum, and wondering if you’re even qualified to teach your children. I understand that feeling. When I first began homeschooling, I thought I needed the perfect schedule, the perfect curriculum, and all the answers before I could start. But I’ve learned something important: You don’t need to have it all figured out to beg
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So You’ve Decided to Homeschool… Now What? A Beginner’s Guide for New Homeschool Parents
Take a deep breath, Mama. Seriously. If you’ve recently decided to homeschool, chances are you’re feeling a mixture of excitement, relief, fear, and about a thousand questions running through your mind. “Am I qualified?” “What curriculum should I buy?” “Do I need a homeschool room?” “What if I mess this up?” Friend, before you do anything else, I want you to hear this: You do not have to have everything figured out before you begin. Most homeschool parents don’t. In fact, man
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The Pressure of Finding the “Right” Homeschool Curriculum
If you’re a homeschool parent, you’ve probably felt it before… that quiet pressure sitting in the back of your mind asking: “What if I choose the wrong curriculum?” “What if my child falls behind?” “What if everyone else knows what they’re doing except me?” The homeschool world is filled with endless options. Charlotte Mason. Classical. Unit studies. Online programs. Workbook-based learning. The Science of Reading. Hands-on learning. Nature schooling. The list feels never-end
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My May Check-In: Motherhood in the Messy Middle
May always feels like one of those months that sneaks up on you. One minute you’re planning spring activities and trying to stay consistent with your homeschool routines… and the next thing you know, the calendar is full, the house feels a little louder than usual, and you’re wondering how the month is already halfway over. So today I wanted to take a moment to pause and do a little May check-in. Not the polished version. The real one. Homeschool Life Lately This month has be
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Can Moms Really Rest With a Toddler? The Honest Truth About Mom “Rest”
Let me set the scene. It’s finally the weekend. You’ve been looking forward to this moment all week. No rushing through homeschool lessons, no juggling snacks, diapers, and the million tiny responsibilities that come with motherhood. You tell yourself, “This weekend I’m going to rest.” You even imagine it for a moment: A warm cup of coffee. A quiet house. Maybe sitting down for longer than five minutes without someone calling your name. And then your toddler wakes up. The Rea
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The Boy Who Made Me a Mom: A Mother’s Day Reflection
Mother’s Day has always been a little extra special for me. Not just because I’m a mom—but because it usually falls right around my oldest son’s birthday. My first baby. The one who made me a mother. This year, he turned nine years old, and just like many years before, his birthday landed right around Mother’s Day weekend. And honestly? I wouldn’t have it any other way. Celebrating His Birthday at Magic Kingdom This year we decided to do something extra fun to celebrate him.
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The Truth About "Juggling It All" as a Homeschool Mom
One question I get asked a lot is: “How do you juggle it all?” Homeschooling two kids. One who is dyslexic and needs extra support. A toddler who is usually either on my hip… or nursing. And all the other moving parts that come with motherhood. Meals. Laundry. Teaching. Meltdowns. Messes. The everyday chaos of raising little humans. The honest answer? Jesus. The Honest Truth About “Juggling It All” If I’m being completely honest, juggling it all isn’t easy. Some days I feel o
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April Monthly Check-In: Life in the Messy Middle
April felt like one of those months that moved both slow and fast at the same time. Some days felt long and exhausting, while other moments reminded me just how quickly this season of motherhood is passing. If you’re a mom in the middle of raising kids, juggling responsibilities, homeschooling, and trying to take care of yourself somewhere in between…you probably understand exactly what I mean. So here’s my April monthly check-in. Nothing perfectly polished. Just a little rea
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When Motherhood Feels Like Survival Mode (The No-Nap Week)
I missed my usual Monday blog post this week. And honestly… motherhood is the reason why. My one-year-old toddler has officially been on what I call a no-nap strike, and any parent who has experienced that knows exactly what it means for mom: exhaustion. Add in some sciatica pain running down my back and legs, and let’s just say this week has been a lot. The Reality of the Week Some weeks feel organized and productive. This week has felt more like survival mode. Between manag
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Why Moms Sometimes Need to Unplug From the World
Why Moms Sometimes Need to Unplug From the World Motherhood today comes with a constant stream of noise. Notifications. Breaking news. Social media updates. Endless scrolling. It can feel like the world is always asking for our attention. And somewhere in the middle of trying to keep up with everything happening online, we can forget to be fully present in the moments happening right in front of us. Sometimes the most healing thing a mom can do is simply unplug. The Pressure
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Why I Created The Messy Middle Circle: A Supportive Community for Moms
A private space for moms navigating the middle together Motherhood has a way of bringing us to places we never expected. Not the sweet newborn snuggles everyone talks about. Not the picture-perfect moments on social media. But the middle. The part where you’re tired, figuring things out, and quietly carrying more than most people realize. The messy middle is where so many moms live. It’s the season after the excitement fades and before clarity returns. The season where you’re
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What It’s Really Like to Homeschool a 5-Year-Old (What It Taught Me as a Mom)
We love our days at the museum! Homeschooling a 5-year-old will teach you a lot. Not just about letters, numbers, and learning… But about patience. About expectations. And honestly, about yourself. Last year, we started homeschooling my second son when he was almost five. And I can tell you — it stretched me in ways I didn’t expect. It’s Not What I Thought It Would Look Like When I first imagined homeschooling, I pictured: Sitting at the table Completing lessons Checking thin
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Raising a Dyslexic Child: The Strengths No One Talks About
When people talk about dyslexia, they usually talk about the struggles. The tears. The frustration. The long homework nights. The reading challenges. And yes… those things are real. But something I rarely hear people talk about are the strengths. Because raising a dyslexic child isn’t only about the hard parts. There are gifts in the way their minds work too. And once you start noticing those gifts, it changes the way you see your child — and the way they see themselves. The
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March Check-In: Life Lately in the Messy Middle of Motherhood
March already? How did that happen? I feel like we just packed away the Christmas decorations… and now somehow, we’re halfway to spring break, the pollen is trying to take us out, and my toddler thinks 4:45 a.m. is a perfectly reasonable time to start the day. So, I figured it was time for a little Mom in the Middle March check-in. Because if there’s one thing motherhood teaches you, it’s that life moves fast… but somehow the laundry still never ends. Homeschool Life Lately H
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Up Before Dawn: When Your Toddler’s Sleep Schedule Wrecks Your Homeschool Plans
If you’re a mom with little kids at home, you probably know this feeling. You wake up before the sun… not because you planned to, but because your toddler did...Again. Maybe they’re teething. Maybe they’re going through a sleep regression. Maybe toddlers just enjoy reminding us that sleep schedules are more of a suggestion than a rule. Either way, your carefully planned homeschool day suddenly feels like it’s already off track before it even starts. If you’re in this season,
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18 Months of Breastfeeding: A Journey I Never Expected
If you had told me a few years ago that I would still be breastfeeding at 18 months, I probably wouldn’t have believed you. Between the NICU experience with my first baby, the mixed feeding journey with my second, and the overwhelming early weeks with my third, breastfeeding always felt complicated and uncertain. But somehow, here we are. Eighteen months later, still nursing. Not perfectly. Not without challenges. But with a lot of learning, patience, and moments of connectio
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18 Months Postpartum: Faith, Healing, and Overcoming Postpartum Anxiety
If you asked me how my mental health is right now — 18 months postpartum — I can honestly say: I’m in a good place. Not a perfect place. Not a stress-free place. But a grounded, steady place. Mentally, I feel stronger. Spiritually, I feel anchored. And the difference this time has been my faith. Leaning on God Instead of Carrying It Alone I’ve been relying heavily on my relationship with God in this season. I talk to Him daily — sometimes constantly — throughout my day. In th
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18 Months Postpartum and Not Back to Pre-Pregnancy Weight (And Why That’s OK)
It’s been 18 months. And I’m still not at my pre-pregnancy weight. And you know what? That’s okay. In the early days postpartum, I was so worried about “snapping back.” That phrase the world throws around like it’s the ultimate badge of honor. I felt this quiet pressure to hurry up and look like myself again — to shrink, to tone, to prove that I could bounce back. But somewhere along the way, my perspective shifted. Because what’s actually important? Not the number on the sca
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